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Some of you are not out of the church over doubt. You are out over one man whose name you still remember, because somebody told you he can be forgiven the same as you.
You worked the case. You sat across from him in a small room and kept your voice level while he explained why it happened, then you walked out to your car and sat there a while before you turned the key. You saw the photographs. You know what he did to that kid, and you know that kid is in his thirties now and still not right, and you have a pretty good idea he never will be. Then somebody hands you a Bible and tells you that if that man prays the right prayer in his cell tonight, he stands in front of God in the same shape you do.
The cops I talk to ask this one bluntly, so here it is the way they ask it. Does a child molester get the same salvation I do? I know people who have stood at that wall for twenty years without walking through it, and they are not troubled by evil in general. They are troubled by one file. The answer below comes out of the text, and it deals with the second question underneath the first one, which is what thirty years on the job were worth if the answer comes back yes.
Where God actually stands
Most men at this wall are braced for a God who shrugs at what happened to that kid. Jesus talked about men who hurt children and used language on them that He did not use on anybody else.
“but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.” Matthew 18:6, ESV
There were two kinds of millstones in that world. One was the hand mill a woman turned in her kitchen, and the other was the big one that took a donkey to turn. Jesus reached for the donkey stone, and He said it would be better for that man to go into deep water wearing it than to walk into what is waiting for him on the other side. When you come to God angry about this, you are not bringing Him a feeling He has to talk you down off of. You are bringing Him something He already carries, and He carries more of it than you do.
The prophet who ran
Your objection is already in Scripture, in a prophet’s mouth, and God did not throw him out for having it. Everybody knows Jonah ran. Very few people in the pews know why, and he says it himself in chapter four, after Nineveh repents and the city is spared.
“And he prayed to the LORD and said, ‘O LORD, is not this what I said when I was yet in my country? That is why I made haste to flee to Tarshish; for I knew that you are a gracious God and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love, and relenting from disaster.’” Jonah 4:2, ESV
The running had nothing to do with fear. Jonah did not want those people forgiven and he said so to God’s face. Before anybody writes him off as small about it, understand who Nineveh was. Assyria was the most brutal military power of that era and was proud of it. They flayed prisoners alive, stacked heads outside the cities they took, and carved the picture of it into their palace walls so that everybody coming through the gate knew what they were dealing with. Jonah was not being petty and he was not wrong about the record.
God never defends Nineveh in the exchange, not once, and He does not tell Jonah the intel is bad. He asks one question and the book stops there.
“And should not I pity Nineveh, that great city, in which there are more than 120,000 persons who do not know their right hand from their left, and also much cattle?” Jonah 4:11, ESV
A hundred and twenty thousand people who cannot tell their right hand from their left is a description of small children. God closes His argument about mercy by pointing at the kids inside the city He is sparing. For anyone who worked those cases, that verse ought to stop you where you stand, because the mercy being objected to was aimed at the same people you spent a career trying to keep alive.
The case you think is not in there
You may believe there is nobody in Scripture who did what your suspect did. There is, and he ran a country for fifty-five years, the longest reign anybody had in Judah. He took the throne at twelve years old.
“And he burned his sons as an offering in the Valley of the Son of Hinnom and used fortune-telling and omens and sorcery, and dealt with mediums and with necromancers. He did much evil in the sight of the LORD, provoking him to anger.” 2 Chronicles 33:6, ESV
Manasseh burned his own sons alive as an act of worship. Jewish tradition holds that he filled Jerusalem with innocent blood from one end of it to the other. If that file came across your desk you would need no time at all with the charges and you would not lose a minute of sleep over the sentence. Assyria eventually put a hook in his nose and hauled him to Babylon in chains, and this is what the chronicler says happened to him down there.
“And when he was in distress, he entreated the favor of the LORD his God and humbled himself greatly before the God of his fathers. He prayed to him, and God was moved by his entreaty and heard his plea and brought him again to Jerusalem into his kingdom. Then Manasseh knew that the LORD was God.” 2 Chronicles 33:12-13, ESV
God heard him. That has been sitting in your Bible the whole time you have been standing outside the building. So the answer to the question in the title is yes. A man who burned children prayed, he was received, and the chronicler reports it without apologizing for it. Paul says the same thing about the Corinthian church after running through a list of people nobody wanted in the room.
“And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” 1 Corinthians 6:11, ESV
What Manasseh did not get back
Read the rest of the chapter, because the mercy did not come with a clean slate. He came home to a wrecked country. His son Amon walked straight into the same evil and was murdered in his own house about two years into the job. Two chapters later God says Judah is still going into exile over what Manasseh did to it. He got God back and he never got any of the wreckage back.
“Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.” Galatians 6:7, ESV
In plain language for the man in the cell, being forgiven does not open a gate, take a year off a sentence, pull a name off a registry, or put a child back in a house with him. It changes where he stands with God and touches none of that. If a man says he got saved in there and the first thing he asks about is working with kids, you have been handed everything you need to know about the conversion.
You already know the rest, because we watched it for thirty years. Some jailhouse conversions are the real thing and most do not survive contact with the parole board. John the Baptist gave the test in five words when he told the crowd to bear fruit in keeping with repentance. Fruit over time is what settles it, not the profession and not the crying in the interview room. Most cops read that better than most pastors do, and churches need us doing it instead of sitting in the parking lot.
The part some of you will not like
When Jesus told the story about the son who came home, He did not end it at the party. He ended it out in the dark, with the older brother standing in the yard refusing to go inside. That brother’s whole complaint was that he had done everything right for years and this one came home and got a fattened calf, and he was not wrong about any of the facts. He was standing outside his own father’s house over somebody else’s forgiveness, and the story leaves him out there.
You spent a career keeping men from doing what that guy in the interview room did. You held a line most people never think about one time, and it cost you sleep, and it cost some of us marriages, and it cost all of us pieces of our health that are not coming back. Somewhere in all of that, a man starts needing the ledger to add up to something. So if grace reaches him too, what was any of it for?
Nobody got away with anything. The cross was the charge getting paid, and it was paid in blood. Either that man answers for what he did himself and answers forever, or Christ already answered for it, and there is no third door where it gets waved off the docket. Paul says God arranged it that way on purpose so He could be just and still justify a guilty man. Nobody walked.
Your years were never a payment on anything either. You can bring the whole career with you through that door when you come.
The verdict you do not have to hold
For the man who cannot let go of it because he does not trust that it will ever be settled, there is one more passage.
“Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.’” Romans 12:19, ESV
Read what that promises. The debt does not get dropped, it gets collected by somebody with better information than you ever had and who cannot be lied to at a parole hearing. Abraham asked whether the Judge of all the earth would do what is just, and he asked it knowing the answer. Nothing in Scripture requires you to feel good about who else walks through the door. What it asks is that you quit carrying the verdict yourself, and most men find that is a lighter load than the one they have been under.
What to do this week
If this is what stands between you and Christ, tell Him so this week, out loud, in those words. He took it from Jonah to His face and He can take it from you.
Open your own Bible and read Jonah 4 and 2 Chronicles 33 all the way through. Do not take my word for any of it. You never took secondhand intelligence on anything else that mattered.
If you know a man standing at this same wall, send this to him. Most of them have never told one person that this is why they stay outside.
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Fantastic sermon! Saving for future use. Thank you, brother Keith.
Yes it's amazing how these biblical stories grow in meaning as we go over them as adults.